Our grandkids always want us to make up stories to tell them. First question is fiction or non-fiction. Brock always wants a non-fiction story so I usually end up telling him a story about his mom and aunt growing up.
This is a story I haven’t told them and I believe it is a fiction story or at least I have never seen this happen.
So, as a fiction story starts, here goes…
Once upon a time, there was a husband and wife that lived together in the country. The wife loved to sew quilts in the winter time. She had been gathering quite a pile of quilt tops and material during the spring, summer and fall.
**Side note:a quilt top is just what you think it is, the top of the quilt, there has to be batting and a back quilted to the top for it to truly be a quilt. AND gathering quite a pile of material is called a stash or as the wife’s children call it “hoarding”.
One day on the weekend when the weather was bad as it seems to get sometime in Missouri winters, the wife decided to do a little stash busting (see the explanation above!!) and get those backs complete so she could send them to the quilter. See, most quilts take anywhere from 3-6 yards of material to properly cover the back and this wife likes to piece backs so they are not plain. It makes them more interesting and have more character. She explains to the hubby that she is trying to get rid of some of that material that just appeared over the summer in her sewing room. And she actually had 18 quilt tops to get ready. He said he would take care of the housework if she wanted to sew all weekend.
(This next part might or might not be the fiction part).
So the hubby, while doing house work, cleaning and doing dishes, decided he needed to wear an apron. The wife was a loving wife and didn’t take any pictures to share with the world so you just have to visualize it in your mind. Remember this guy is 6’2″ and weighs somewhere around 245 pounds! By taking care of the housework, the husband allowed the wife to stash bust almost 50 yards of material.
While most of this story is true, there are parts that are fiction but the hubby’s cousin thought it would be funny to write this story, so Kent Hanan, here is a story just for you. Sorry there are no pictures but I am sure you can use your imagination.
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To my mother! Today you are another year older. I wonder when you were a little girl growing up in town and visits to the big city was an adventure for you if you thought your life would take you on the journey you have been on.
Did you know you would raise 4 kids that are totally different but in some ways just alike? Did you know you would marry into a huge family and spend your life on a farm, learning all about that way of life that was so totally different from your childhood? Did you know those same in-laws would be more like brothers and sisters than you ever imagined possible?
I remember you telling us stories of growing up. Of course, you all may not have had much money, but you always had family around and cousins to play with and get in trouble with right? And you all still visit (sometimes only on facebook, but still visit!) to this day. Paper dolls and dollies seemed to be your toys of choice. I remember you talking about visiting Aunt Gin and Uncle Tom, what an amazing role model she was/is for you. The funniest story was of you and one of the cousins hiding in Grandpa’s dump truck and he found out just before his truck was loaded. I bet you gave him a few gray hairs that day and it has been a good story to pass along to your kids.
I know it is crazy to think about all the things you have seen change in your lifetime. Farming in the 60s is very different from now, we used to haul hay in a 3/4 ton pickup and you let us ride on the top of the load (taught us to be excellent at stacking!), going to Illinois to get peaches and yes they are still my favorite fruit, I think because my subconscious mind remembers all the fun times we had. You and Dad always worked together as a team and were an excellent example of what a marriage should be. When things got hard, you all never quit. There were lots of hard times during those years on the farm.
When Grandpa was so sick and in the hospital, you would go to see him everyday and he grew to expect those visits, you were his little girl to the very end. And then years later when Granny was diagnosed with cancer, you stepped up to the plate and took her home, put your job on hold to take care of her. She appreciated that so much and you were such a blessing to her.
Thanks for reminding me a couple of years ago that I love gardening and sharing my bounty with others. You love to spoil the grandkids and great grandkids and are the happiest when everyone is around. July 4th, Thanksgiving and Christmas are the highlights of your year because everyone tries to get home to see you all. Plus you always make a ton of food for everyone.
I know it sometimes slips other’s minds because your birthday is around Christmas but I wanted to be the first to wish you a very special day and I hope it is everything you hope for.
We love you.
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If you have not received a Christmas letter from me by January 1st, I hope you can read this on here. Life has been a little crazy so yes I am very late getting my letter out. Promise to try to do better next year.
December 2013~~~Merry Christmas from Jimmy and Mylene. We hope your year has been as blessed as ours has. Jimmy is keeping busy with his job at Kingdom Telephone as well as all the other things he does, lawn care, gardening, helping out the neighbors when they call him, whatever he is doing it seems he is busy all the time. He recovered very nicely from shoulder surgery and the surgeon was amazed how well he has healed up. Mylene is busy with her job as well, teaching food classes throughout the county and has taught a couple of other “food related” classes as well, food dehydration and storage, emergency preparedness food storage and edible holiday gifts. She has really enjoyed this opportunity to help her friends become more prepared for the food markets to come. She also helped with a disaster preparedness exercise in July to help our citizens know what to do when and if there is an emergency.
We had a garden this year, only 32 tomato plants, 40 bell pepper plants, onions, lima beans, squash, jalapeños, Anaheim peppers and cantaloupe, everything grew very well and we were able to store food for the winter as well as share with others, providing some tomatoes and bell peppers for the Post Office Bar and Grill in Fulton. One of the neighbors provided us with sweet corn and Mylene’s brother gave her green beans and pears! Saying we are blessed in our community is an understatement. Everyone is always willing to help out.
We had so much snow last winter and it looks like we are going to have more this winter. Prayers that everyone stays safe when it is bad out. Then the summer was not as hot as last but it was still rather warm and dry again this summer.
Ryker James Stemme made his entrance on January 16th, 2013 at 1:07 am, which is Mylene’s Aunt’s birthday as well, one day after Mylene’s parents 53rd anniversary. He is such a sweet baby, walking at 10.5 months because he couldn’t let his sister and brother get away from him. They love him so much and it is fun to watch them interact with him. He is Papa’s boy and wants to be everywhere Papa is and will throw a fit if he can’t go.
Brock started kindergarten this year and has Mrs. Warbritton and loves school. I asked him last weekend if he still likes school and he said “What do you think, of course I do!”. He amazes me every time I see him how much he has learned, spelling, math, reading (although he says he can’t read really good yet but he is working on it). And he has lost two teeth, with two more loose. He is over 4 feet tall and weighs 70 lbs. He has just started wrestling practice with a meet soon. Good luck buddy, you are going to have to teach Nanny and Papa about wrestling because we know nothing about it.
Adrianna is the leader of the younger kids at Agnes’ house. She is going to school with Ms. Agnes according to her and loves working on it. She is in dance in Centralia and has a good time, learning to twirl a baton as well. Can’t wait to see how she does. She always wants to help in the kitchen, baking goodies as she says. She is so much like her mommy and Aunt Sha-Sha, sometimes it is like stepping back in time.
Blessings to you and yours during this holiday season and I hope each of you get to hear the wondrous story of Jesus’ birth sometime during Christmas. It is amazing and so special each time we hear it and want each of you to be blessed as well.
I have lots of pictures on Facebook to see how everyone is doing. We recently took a picture of the whole family at my parents house outside in the snow but the weather was nice.
Merry Christmas and happy new year from the Dunns.
Jimmy and Mylene
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How many of you get junk mail on a daily basis? Or newspapers, bills you pay on-line, catalogs, magazines or any other thing that is made of paper and you can recycle? Junk mail drives me crazy as well as catalogs that I don’t request. If I ordered your product on-line, why do you think I will look through a catalog that you send? I don’t, they immediately go in the recycle bag. When we get enough, we shred it and put it in the garden as a ground cover to keep weeds down and it breaks down rather quickly and helps the soil. When we have more than we need for the garden, it will go in the compost pile. Jimmy just made me a new (and BIG) compost area. We have corn shucks, cobs, tomato cores, and other left overs from all the canning/dehydrating, freezing we have done from the garden, next will come leaves and chipped sticks/limbs and one day soon, we will have beautiful soil to add to the garden.
We have shredded almost 8 huge bags for the garden alone this year and it has also helped with holding moisture in the ground instead of it evaporating. That has been a huge deal this summer while it has been significantly dry once again.
What is the recycling saying, “Turning trash to cash”, well that is what we are doing because our grocery bill has been reduced greatly this summer and I have tons of food dehydrated, waiting for cooler weather cooking.
So the next time you complain about junk mail, save it, take it somewhere that has a cross-cut shredder and enhance your soil or check your office to see if they are trying to get rid of shredded paper. You might be surprised how much it helps your garden, whether it is vegetable or flower. One word of caution, if it has colored ink, sometimes it contains metals, which if you add manure (especially poultry) it will break down the metals and make it safe for your vegetable garden.
Happy composting everyone.
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As the “last” weekend of summer has arrived, I realize it has been a while since I posted. It has been one of the most busy summers I can remember. It has also been kind of odd summer as well. August came in with beautiful cool weather (well, 70s and 80s are very cool for August here), but the last two weeks were brutal with highs hovering close to 100 degrees with heat advisories most days. It has also been very dry once again this year. It seems like it wasn’t that long ago we had more rain in the summers than we wanted. Irrigation lakes are being pumped way down once again this year and the winter prediction from the Farmer’s Almanac says another snowy winter. I am praying they are wrong.
I started teaching a food dehydrating class and have many fruits and veggies dehydrated and have enjoyed the bounty of our garden this year once again. We have been supplying a local restaurant with tomatoes and I have almost 3 gallons of dried tomatoes that will taste wonderful this winter/spring when there is not a good tomato to be found locally. Neighbors have been very generous with sweet corn as well. We never plant it in the garden because so many of the neighbors plant a patch in their field and share. This is the first year we have grown bell peppers with any success. On Tuesday of this past week, Jimmy picked 10 gallons of bell peppers and helped me slice all of them and into the dehydrator they went.
The grandkids have kept us busy, Brock was on a competitive swim team this year and loved it. He started kindergarten this fall and is doing well. He is also talking about wrestling so that will be fun to watch and will be something new for us. Adrianna is the dancer/singer/entertainer in the family, she is always making us sit and watch her performances. She made a deal with Nanny and Papa that she will help around our house so she can earn money for her dance classes. She is going to Centralia to take these classes this year so she will be making lots of new friends. Ryker is 7 1/2 months old and is crawling everywhere and pulling up and walking around things. Don’t think he is going to wait to walk. He has too many things to do, like keeping up with everyone else. He is such a sweet baby, happy most of the time but doesn’t like to sleep, I think he is afraid he is going to miss something!
Jimmy and I keep ourselves busy at our jobs and after work. Most of the time we don’t get in the house until dark because we are working on the yard or in the garden. Not mowing much right now because it is so dry, but other things keep us busy. We build a new compost pile and are trying to keep it going with all the scraps from the produce from the garden. The squirrels have found it and love to come steal their supper. Brock told them to go ahead and steal that food because they will be food for us this winter. I think he has plans to learn to shoot!
KFJ starts this Wednesday and I am excited to see all the little ones again, some have moved up from our class and will be in the 4-year-old class (like Adrianna), but we will get new ones to get to know better and lead them to learn about God and Jesus and their love for children and how they should act. It is always fun to see them grow in God’s love. So if you are in the neighborhood (or don’t mind driving to Hatton every Wednesday), and have kids between 2-18, bring them to Pleasant Grove at 6:00 pm for a wonderful couple of hours that includes supper. Thanks to all the ladies and men that help prepare supper for these kids and teachers, we appreciate you more than you know.
Hope your summer has been a good one and make we have a beautiful fall season and safe harvest.
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My uncle Les passed away yesterday. Just to give you a little history about the family; there were 6 boys and 5 girls, the first-born (a girl) died at birth. We saw a picture of her once, she was a beautiful baby that did not get to live her life. The other 10 were all a hard-working bunch of kids/adults. Their parents were hardworking people as well. I was never able to meet my grandfather, he passed away 3 years before I was born, but I spent a lot of time with my grandmother. She loved children and wanted some of her many grandchildren with her every weekend! This family is very close and when tragedy strikes we all close ranks and share our pain and all the wonderful memories, sometimes it seems overwhelming to outsiders because there are so many of us, but we take everyone for granted and it seems to lessen our pain somehow.
First Aunt Ella Mae passed away, then Uncle Manley. They both had lingering illnesses, then came the death of Uncle Jim, he was in a tractor accident and it was a huge shock for all of us. Aunt Dorothy was next and she fought cancer for many years. Now Uncle Les, he was sick for a while and fought it with great courage and worked until the very last.
He taught everyone that worked with him the value of hard work. He was a cattle farmer and baled hay like no other. One lesson we learned from him was to never complain about how heavy the bales were. If we complained, he would crank that baler down a little more and make the bales heavier. He had this old Ford tractor that I hated because it seemed the clutch was so hard to press and would really build up one leg muscle more than the other. But you had to earn the right to drive that tractor.
He loved to dance and went to the VFW hall in Columbia every week that he could. He was a good dancer as well (most of those boys were!). He also liked to street race (I guess that is what you would call it today), he had a Ford car that he would race anyone in and was good at it too.
He was an awesome father and uncle to all of us nieces and nephews. In our family all the uncles are very much like another father for us and the aunts are like another mother to us. He was a great Christian example for all of us, soft-spoken, smiling most of the time, harmless teasing and ribbing, but mostly he was there to hang on to when things got rough.
So to Aunt Edna, Aunt Tootsie, Uncle Harold, Uncle Richard and Dad (and your spouses!) we are going to need you all more than ever, but you know this and are always there for us to lean on, cry on your shoulder, share our joys with, cheer us on as we reach our goals.
To Lana and Kent, we are sharing in your sorrow, but know you have so many shoulders to lean on when you need us, we have so many good memories to share.
The sorrow is lessened for us because we know he is rejoicing in Heaven with Aunt Francis and they have probably already shared many dances and he is back to baling hay and she is cooking something for him when he comes in from that heavenly hay-field. Thank you for so many great memories, we will never forget you and all you have done for this family.
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We had so much rain last week and Thursday and Friday were the worst, massive flash flooding everywhere and no where to play outside because of all the rain. Saturday it sprinkled early in the morning and then turned into a beautiful day. Aunt Sha-Sha came out to play with the kids at Nanny and Papa’s while Mommy and Daddy worked on a garage sale project (later in June, lots of clothes and other stuff for sale). They decided to get the stroller out and take Ryker for a walk down the driveway and back. He enjoyed it because he was outside and moving around. Brock had to push because he is the big brother. Nanny was able to snap some pictures of them coming back up the driveway.
Hope you are finding something wonderful to do while we are blessed with all this rainfall.
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